Regrettably, my Sinnflut Reality (by Fun Factory) really should be replaced. It still charges and provides different vibration levels and styles… when I can switch through them. I can still turn on the vibrator, but switching to the next level usually turns it off, and has for well over a year now. Managing to successfully bring the vibrator to the desired setting, rather than switch it off, is random and requires many tries. Fighting with a vibrator does not really encourage a sexy mood for masturbation, and I do not even bother including it for partner play anymore.
Month: December 2012
Veto Power
Recent articles on Polyamory Weekly and SoloPoly have me thinking about one very important difference between good swinger practices and good polyamory practices: veto power. For a good and safe swinging experience, a couple would do well to employ veto power. In polyamory, though, veto power should be exercised with caution, if at all.