Swinging… We Like The Idea

*Note: These posts are often composed in advance, and so may not always reflect events in real time. SwingBot does post about events as they happen. Consequently, there may be discrepancies in the stages of our stories.*

For years, SwingBot and I discussed finding other sexual playmates and, at the end of this July, finally took action in the way of personal ads. Considering how long it took us to get to that stage, we felt comfortable about being selective about our potential new parter(s). Amidst many Definitely Nots and a few Maybes, we very quickly found one Yes, whom I’ll call “BG” (for “Bi Guy”).

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Swinging… There Are Protocols?

*Note: These posts are weekly, often composed in advance, and so may not always reflect events in real time. SwingBot does post about events as they happen. Consequently, there may be discrepancies in the stages of our stories.*

After years of off-and-on discussion about finding other sexual partners for us to share, SwingBot and I finally started an active search. Very quickly, we got our first real candidate. I found a humorous and intelligent profile belonging to a humorous and intelligent bisexual man. He and we (primarily SwingBot, at first) were soon exchanging messages, chatting, and planning a meet-and-greet-no-sex first date.

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Swinging… Bisexual Male, Please

*Note: These posts are weekly, often composed in advance, and so may not always reflect events in real time. SwingBot does post about events as they happen. Consequently, there may be discrepancies in the stages of our stories.*

As I previously mentioned, SwingBot and I are delicately toeing the wild waters of swinging. Our desires include getting him MM action, getting me FF action, and getting us both MMF action. We are open to other possibilities, but MMF encounters (that include MM action) and FF encounters are our core goals. Also, as I mentioned, for a “lifestyle community” that prides itself on being so open, it sure has a lot of closed doors. Many seem to want straight swapping or FFM activity while considering MM and MMF unnecessary evils.

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Swinging… But No Balls Touching

SwingBot and I are both bisexual. Some years ago, we openly discussed this and related topics, such as whether we would each have same-sex partners. We had broached the concept of a MMF threesome before. In fact, when we first started dating, SwingBot arranged a sort-of MFM threesome with a friend of his and me; the friend and I had sex while SwingBot watched us and touched me. We long ago agreed that we would like to try a MMF threesome again and neither of us really wanted a FFM threesome. However, trying threesomes was not a high priority until recently.

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SwingBot: Got to get down to swing town

SwingBot is the M half of this duet, who occasionally contributes inane guest-posts to this blog.

One of the things we looked at a lot were swing clubs. There’s a couple in the area, and some are obviously nicer than others. One looks like somebody’s basement, while another has oak lockers and a sprinkler system. They all seem to be variations of pillows, beds, and cushions scattered around on which to publicly gyrate. There are also smaller areas built right in with curtains, so you could slip inside with someone and then someone can slip inside.

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SwingBot: Two’s Company

SwingBot is the M half of this duet, who occasionally contributes inane guest-posts to this blog.

First off, this is just a shameless pitch for my SO’s new blog, which she created on this very same topic, in case you want to hear about this stuff from the other end of the leash. Also, she came up with a better name than I did.

http://www.weekbiweek.com/

However, to level the playing field, I feel I should cough up some past history details about myself, if only to clarify a couple things from Week Bi Week.

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Your Cheatin’ Heart

I recently found a relationship discussion thread started by a man who had cheated on his girlfriend and wanted to know whether he should tell her or not. In his post, he stated that the GF was “the one” (his words) — though their relationship had only been for six months — and he did not want to lose her. His cheating involved a premeditated meeting for oral sex. He claimed to feel terrible about it afterwards, that he knew beforehand he would feel terrible about it, and noted that the woman with whom he cheated was “ugly” (again, his words). His argument for not telling his GF was that he knew he would never cheat again and he saw no point in hurting her. The thread then saw a lot of hotly contested debate on what he should do, including many speculations that the cheater did not genuinely feel remorseful about his actions.

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